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Something that I love about the life I share with Greg is the fact that we are just happy to be together.  Maybe it is the fact that we’ve been a couple for eighteen years, but we realize that there is so little we truly need from each other.  We are each our own source of happiness and joy, modified by the fact there is someone truly wonderful to cuddle with each night in bed.

We have no grand expectations or idealized versions of what our life should look like.  What we have is what we want and relish, every last bit:  being in the same room, listening to music, watching a movie, sharing a smile, a laugh, or, in this case, a meal.

This was our Sunday dinner.  Neither of us has ever outgrown the fish fillets of our youth.  So we baked some up, and I made tartar sauce and rosemary (fresh from the garden!) home fries to accompany them.  It certainly wasn’t anything gourmet, but, with his company, it sure felt like it.  Every bite was delicious.  A real treat!

Bliss

It is good to be just plain happy;

it is a little better to know that you’re happy;

but to understand that you’re happy and to know why and how…

and still be happy in the being and the knowing, well

that is beyond happiness, that is bliss.

Henry Miller, The Colossus of Maroussi

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Okay, as someone who writes for a “living,” I feel like a total dork, but did you know that bimonthy can mean twice monthly OR every other month?  What?!  I’ve only used it to express twice monthly, but now, I will be extra careful to avoid any sort of confusion because there is a mighty big difference between twenty-four and six.  Oy.  I am just reeling.  As someone with a deep appreciation for language and words, to say that I am disappointed to learn this is an understatement.  What kind of nutter butter decided this?

Anyway, You’re probably wondering why this even matters.  Well, I was starting to write a post about how I gather my friends up every other month for Bunco, but thought, surely there’s a word for that and did a little internet search.  There you go.  I’ve done the disappointing leg work for all of us.

As I was saying, I gather the lovely ladies to my house bimonthly, and we chat, roll the dice (most of the time), drink, eat, and are generally quite merry, often whooping and hollering with delight at our luck or lack of it.  We are a wonderful group of beautiful, smart, funny, caring, and talented ladies.  We love life, children (though I am the only one without any – they don’t hold it against me :), a good time, and a slice of cake.

About the cake, my dear friend Carolyn requested that I share the recipe from last Friday’s gathering.  It is quite rich, a little slice going a long way, and delicious, too.  I’m sorry I don’t have a picture of it, but we gobbled it up before I had the chance.  Also, I have no photos of the lovely ladies themselves, well, save one, but I didn’t think Mara and Amber would want to be singled out like that, so, instead, I’ve got one of the table I set for the festivities.  The tablecloth is the one I got from my adventure at The Bins, and the miniature daffodils are from our yard.  I’ll get a picture of all of the ladies next time.  I’m sure Greg won’t mind coming down in between whoops and hollers to capture our collective beauty for the ages and the blogosphere.

Anyway, the recipe is adapted from my very favorite dessert cookbook by the late Richard Sax, Classic Home Desserts:

Fabulous Flourless Chocolate Cake

Cake:

8 ounces bittersweet or semisweet chocolate, coarsely chopped

1 stick butter, cut into pieces, softened

6 large eggs: 2 whole, 4 divided

3/4 cup sugar

For flavor, pick one or two of the following:

2 tablespoons brandy or Grand Marnier

1 t cinnamon

Grated zest of one orange

Whipped Cream Topping:

1 1/2 cups heavy cream, well chilled

3 tablespoons powdered sugar

1 teaspoon vanilla

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon (optional)

Cake:

Preheat the oven to 350.  Line the bottom of an 8″ or 9″ spring form pan with a round of wax paper.  Do not butter the pan.  Melt the chocolate in a double boiler or bowl set over hot water.  Remove from heat and whisk in the butter until melted; set aside.

Whisk the two whole eggs and the four egg yolks with 1/2 cup of the the sugar, just until blended.  Whisk in the warm chocolate mixture.  Whisk in your optional flavoring – cinnamon, brandy, Grand Marnier, or orange zest.  Carolyn, for Bunco, I used the cinnamon.

In another bowl, beat the four egg whites until foamy.  Slowly add the remaining 1/4 cup sugar and beat until the whites form soft mounds that hold their shape but are not stiff.  Stir about 1/4 of the beaten whites into the chocolate mixture to lighten it; gently fold in the remaining whites, being careful not to deflate them.  Pour the batter into the pan; smooth the top.

Bake until the top of the cake is puffed and cracked and the center is no longer wobbly; 35-45 minutes.  It will still look pretty moist, so do not overbake.

Cool the cake in the pan on a wire rack; the cake will look like a crater, complete with a sunken center and high sides.  It ain’t pretty!

Whipped Cream Topping:

At serving time, whip the cream with powdered sugar, vanilla, and cinnamon.  Fill the crater of the cake and serve.  Also, be careful not to eat the wax paper you used to line the pan.  It disguises itself rather well, but if you pay attention, it can be peeled away as you slice the cake.  Enjoy!

Golly, yesterday was a banner day!  Not only was it a holiday (thank you Presidents), but a sunny and dry, perfect for being outdoors kind of day.  Greg and I took full advantage and walked to our favorite Asian restaurant, Stickers, where we enjoyed our usual Scallion Pancake, Kung Pao Chicken, and Satay Sampler, before heading north to New Seasons for a slice of cake and coffee, and home again, collecting four varieties of pine cone,  assorted plant life, groceries, and left-overs along the way .

For fun, Greg made a map of our journey – almost nine miles of beautiful Portland splendor!

Here is what we saw while we were out and about:

The lovely and rather idiosyncratic Reed College – a study in contrasts, yes indeed.

A fitting display of President’s Day patriotism on Milwaukie Avenue.  I love America and this town.

This sight is always worth a chuckle while noshing at Stickers.  I admire the owner’s fantastic sense of humor, but not nearly as much as the handsome man.  I’m no fool.

The lovely old clock for William R. Johnson jewelers.

We don’t tend to enjoy walking on very busy streets, preferring the sound of birds and our own voices over the din of automobiles, but I was pleased as punch that Milwaukie was our only option after we stumbled upon this beauty.  Oh my goodness!  It is the finest example of a 1958 Thunderbird I have EVER seen.  I was so excited that I got misty eyed.  Silly girl.

Why yes, I am a tourist attraction – at least that’s what my hubby says!

Above my head was this perfect sky.  Hello beautiful.

Heavens to mergatroid – a 1940’s Studebaker Champion with suicide doors!

But wait, there’s more!  A gorgeous 1960 Corvette and a 1942 Chief Plymouth.  Will you look at that hood ornament?  How amazing is that?  I thank my lucky stars for all the wonderful automobile sightings, and this isn’t even all of them.  I gave the dear hubster a break and skipped snapping a photo of a rather fine example of a 1964 Ford pick-up.  You’ll just have to take my word for it on that one.

After all the excitement of the cars, it was nice to come across this stand of bamboo.  We stood for a few moments and enjoyed the sound of the leaves rustling in the wind.  Ahh, bliss.

I think this is the cutest chicken coop I’ve ever seen.

Here are the occupants, happily pecking away…

We cast a long shadow.

On this eighteenth anniversary of our very first date, these words seem most appropriate:

Unto us, all our days are love’s anniversaries, each one

In turn hath ripened something of our happiness.

Robert Bridges

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